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bitterness, anger, forgiveness: reflections in ephesians 4 (part 3)
This is the final part of a three part series reflecting on Ephesians 4:31-32. You can see the other parts on anger & bitterness here and on forgiveness here.
This part is going to focus on how we can “put off” bitterness and “put on” forgiveness. What drives us to forgive in this extravgant manner? How can we forgive this way without burning ourselves out?
Let’s remind ourselves of the passage in Ephesians 4 one more time:
31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
The way we can forgive like this without burning out is found in the last part of v32. Paul instructs his readers to forgive, not out of obligation, not purely so to obey a command, not out of guilt or in order to be pious. Paul says, forgive because in Christ you have been forgiven.
Unless we see that we are just as broken, just as evil, just as in need of forgiveness as the persons who sin against us, we will not be able to forgive. Read the rest of this entry
bitterness, anger, forgiveness: reflection in ephesians 4 (part 2)
Yesterday I began some reflections in Ephesians 4:31-32 about bitterness and anger and this post will focus on forgiveness. How do we forgive? Do we need to forgive and forget? How can we ensure that someone doesn’t hurt us again and again?
These were some of the questions that were raised at the end of the last post and I noted that I needed to answer them here.
Let’s remind ourselves of the passage in Ephesian 4:31-32;
31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
The first question involces the notion of “forgive and forget”. I noted that, in Tim Keller’s words, in order to forgive not only do you have to forego being the executioner, you also revoke your right to judge the person. You cannot be the executioner, you cannot actively seek to bring about your own idea of justice or vengence. And you also revoke the right to be the judge, to pass sentence and will the penalty or will revenge on the person even if you do not carry it out. Bitterness is the inward condition which holds a person liable for a sin (Tim Keller).
So if you cannot act as judge or executioner when someone sins against you, does this mean the only option is to forgive and forget?
Not only is this not the only option, it is often not the right option! In addition, it is almost impossible to forget, especially in serious cases. You may forgive and actually forget, but most of the time this is not a conscious decision – it just happens. But in cases of serious sins, such as abuse or worse, this is almost never a reality. Read the rest of this entry
house of hope – sydney morning herald article
It’s a fair bet that if Jesus Christ were around today, he’d be doing what the Owens are doing in Mount Druitt. They feed the poor and house the homeless. They lead the lost and counsel the conflicted…
They’re experts at unconditional love: alcoholic mums, runaway kids, petty thieves, everyone’s welcome at the Owens’ home, a four-bedroom brick house that for the past five years has been equal parts street kitchen and safe house, as well as a home for their daughters Kshama, 8, and Kiera, 7.
“The most we’ve had here is 13 people,” Jon says, showing me around the cramped, single-storey home, the floors of which are strewn with sheets and sleeping bags. “They crash on the couches, on the floor. It’s busy, but it’s fun, too, especially at dinner time.”
an average day of revolutionary love
Reading The Irresistable Revolution I was inspired by how Shane Claiborne describes “an ordinary day”. I was going to write about this but I figured that this quote says all I wanted to say. Read the rest of this entry
An Advent Conspiracy
Christmas can still changeTHE WORLD. Every year Australians spend $37,000,000,000 (that’s BILLION in case you can’t be bothered counting the zeros!!) on Christmas…. every year!
But Christmas isn’t about shopping and Christmas trees and presents and turkey… is it? Christmas is about God coming to us. The story of Christ’s birth is a story of promise, HOPE, and a revolutionary LOVE.
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Adding to the figures… lack of clean water kills more people everyday than anything else in the world. To solve this global water issue it would take an estimated $15 Billion… less than half of an Aussie Christmas! This Christmas enter the story…
It begins with WORSHIP
At Christmas time we so often find ourseld overwhelmed with shops and presents and food… we act like Christmas trees and gifts represent the true meaning of Christmas. They don’t. Christmas is about WORSHIP not shops. It’s about the Creator of the Universe coming to us in Jesus Christ.
We are then FREE to SPEND LESS
If Christmas is not about presents and shops, but about worship we are free spend less at Christmas time. We don’t have to buy into the advertising about presents, because let’s face it… consumerism does not equal happiness or love or fulfilment. When we see the that Christ is actually about worship and not about consumerism there is a weight lifted from us… we don’t need to be worried about shops and traffic jams and credit card debt…. this doesn’t consume us and we are free to worship fully and spend less.
But we are also able to GIVE MORE
Instead of buying useless gifts, gifts for the sake of a present under the tree, presents that don’t mean anything, presents that just add to the junk we already own… how about giving something meaningful?? Like your time, your energy…. YOURSELF! At Christmas time, God gave the GREATEST gift. Jesus came and gave himself for us… all of himself…. his time, his energy, his… LIFE! At Christmas we can emmulate this by giving gifts of ourselves… make presents instead of buying them (they mean so much more when you spend time on them) and give your PRESENCE… yourself. But, what about that money you didn’t spend on gifts? Couldn’t you give that away too? To people who really need it? At GCC and Cafe Church we’ll be giving money to a Water Fund which will buy wells, sanitation, training and equipment in the developing world with Baptist World Aid Australia and TEAR Australia.
By doing this we can LOVE ALL
Jesus came to love all of humanity… particularly the hurting, the vulnerable, the poor. As you WORSHIP God this Christmas and seek to GIVE more of yourself, why not give to thise who Jesus gave himself to?
THIS IS THE ADVENT CONSPIRACY…
See www.adventconspiracy.org for more info…
Designed for Community
Below is a video clip from US pastor Francis Chan as part of his BASIC Series. It’s called BASIC Fellowship.




A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about the community of God being like salt (Matthew 5:13), preservers of culture and enhancers of culture. The following verses in Matthew 5:14-16, speak about the community of believers being like light saying, You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on a lamp stand and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.